You guys know any good tricks to get a chick from friend to lover. If you do please share it!! Just then I’ve received this trick in my email from a guy called RYD. I’ve found it’s very useful if any of you guys wants your friends to be your lovers. LOL…I am on my way to make a lot of female friends now!!
Here’s how it works:
Don’t spend TOO much time with them, always have a cool time when you hang out, but be hard to catch up with. If you hang out too much, she’ll just be buddy-buddy comfortable with you and nothing will happen. If your company is an occasional treat, you’ll be exciting.
If you were buddy-buddy in past, make sure you’ve been out of her life for a year or two to create a bit of a reset between you.
Always have girls around you. Be fielding calls when you are with her from one or two girls, then turn your phone off, saying that she’s more important to you because the two of you are actual deep friends and that is so important to you.
Complain about ex-girlfriends calling you up for booty-calls. Ask you friend why is it that every girl always tells her ex that he was the best sex she ever had, why don’t girls ever say the sex was half arsed, and why the hell don’t they move on? (Your "friend" will think about all the exs she had that were not the best sex of her life and look at you and wonder what your secret is)
Talk about how you are never going to dive into a relationship with a hot chick you met in a club again. You’ve come to realise that the most important thing is to be real, genuine friends first.
Have her over a couple of times and get the pair of you drunk as hell and DON"T MAKE ANY MOVE ON HER. At some point, move in close to her like you’re about to kiss and give her that look of "we both know you could be mine at any time", but DON"T do it yet.
You want her to think that you know the pair of you could have had sex several times by now and the only reason you haven’t is because you value her as a friend and don’t think she could handle it if you got sexual, even though, to you, it ain’t no thing.
The key with long game is for her to really want to know what the hell she’s missing out on.
You MUST NOT chase her. You must appear to have a whole heap of other action going on and be trying very hard not to let her turn into another conquest.
If you play it right, which means maintaining frame, taking your time and never seeming like you are trying anything, SHE WILL CLOSE YOU.
She may freak out a little, even though she made the move, she’ll put up some LMR, saying that she’s afraid this is going to spoil the relationship. You need to tell her that, as far as you are concerned, your friendship is so solid that nothing will ever stop the two of you being friends. That, when with you, she is free… free from judgement, expectation and consequence.
Perhaps the most important thing, if you want to still be friends, is to be an amazing fuck. I’m serious here, my system depends on creating the image of being an amazing lover that girls just can’t get enough of and being a mature enough person to not let sex get in the way of a good friendship. If you don’t give her the best fuck of her life or if you get all needy and boyfriend-y after the sex, you’ll spook her and could spoil the very foundation of your friendship.
This works for me at a 90% hit rate. My latest conversion was just this week, but she was (at least for now) a one off as she flew out to Shanghai today.
Some of these will end up being a one-off, some will turn into a full relationship, but I find most will turn into a mid to long term fuck buddy thing. I currently have three girls with whom I share this kind of arrangement.
That’s the basics. The key is to be cool and maintain your frame control.
Best of luck.
Thank you: RYD
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